Deployments: Just Like That, It All Came Rushing Back

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I'm not sure how many of you know this but my hubs is a Veteran of the United States Air Force. When we met in 2003, he was still active duty. We met at beginning of the month and almost 3 weeks later, he was deploying to the "sandbox" (aka danger zone Iraq). The deployment was to last 4-5 months. We decided to keep in touch during his deployment and get to know each other better via email and a rare phone call or two. Upon his return, we got together and one thing led to another, a year later we were married, about a month prior to another deployment to the "sandbox". The first deployment … [Read more...]

Sex and The City

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One of my all time FAVORITE show was IS Sex and the City. Do your remember it? It was HBO for like EVER? The reruns continue to play on tv now and I can't help but find myself getting sucked right back into all the drama of NYC and Samantha, Carrie, Charlotte, and Miranda! Last night I was up past midnight again watching reruns of Sex and The City. As I type this blog post, I am watching MORE reruns. I was once an addict and I got sucked back in! How could you not love these girlies? They are all dysfunctional in their own ways. Charlotte always reminded me of the snooty lil … [Read more...]

Sometimes, He Surprises Me

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There are days...... my man surprises me; There are days..... I'd like to knock his block off; There are days..... I remember why I married him; And there are those days..... that I simply think I was drunk when I got married; Then there are days like yesterday...... when my man totally surprises me! … [Read more...]

Would You Like Cheese With That Whine?

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Or better yet! A tampon or maxi pad? I have several you can choose from! I SWEAR men have a period or what I like to refer to as MAN-STRUATION! But theirs is not just a week out of the month ever 20+ some days! NO! I believe they MAN-STRUATE 28 days out of the freakin' month! Do you have one of those partners or spouses that just seems a chronic whiner? I'm telling you! They are Man-Struating! I know it's hard to be sympathetic cause really are they sympathetic with you when you are bleeding like a pig or doubled over due to cramps? HELL NO! Their wanting to … [Read more...]

What Happens When the Sex-Y is Gone

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I often wonder what senior couples do on a day-to-day basis. Do they sit around watching tv all day? Do you play "hide the dentures"? Or are they still looking at ways to keep their marriage alive?  What happens when the sex-y is gone? I actually did a lil bit of research on this one and found out that senior couples, a lot of them, are still engaging in sexual activity! Whoa! However, there are still those who are not, for whatever reasons, let's just say .... the Sex-Y is Gone. So what then?  There are several types of Intimacy.Actually more than what I've listed below but … [Read more...]